Mix cream cheese and sweetened condensed milk using mixer until smooth. Add 1 PKG. Of pudding and half of the cold milk and mix throughly then add other PKG of pudding and rest of cold milk. Blend until nice and smooth then crush half of the Oreo cookies into mixture and fold with spoon then take half container of Cool whip and fold that into mixture. Pour mixture into your desired pan and refrigerate for about 25 minutes or until pudding is set. Then spread rest of Cool Whip over the top and crush the rest of Oreos over that and refrigerate until ready to serve.